Grr-faced

My housemate has a psychology book that she used when she studied psychology at Uni. I was reading about BPD in it. The thing that the author has highlighted most is how manipulative people with BPD are. I don't think I'm manipulative. It's funny how they can call me emotionally unstable, a self-harmer, someone who has chaotic relationships, and is reckless and I'm fine. But manipulative? Grr-face.